【Love Papa】醫心爸爸陸毅康:傾聽孩子心 陪伴子女成長路

「醫生醫生,唔食藥得唔得呀?」病人膽固醇超標,但不想吃藥。 「你要問吓佢⋯」陸毅康醫生除了治心臟,更樂於了解對方的心思。無論對病人還是子女,這位醫生爸爸總會細問對方想法,了解他的個性,找出背後原因對症下藥,「我實畀機會佢試⋯⋯未達標就再幫佢,最後都係大家一齊去達標」。這套心法,對陸醫生和陸爸爸皆通用。 對着子女,陸毅康醫生習慣把愛說出口,也不吝嗇擁抱,希望子女感受到關懷。 心臟專科醫生工作忙碌,朝八晚八,陸醫生忙了一整天回到家變身陸爸爸,這時孩子已快將入睡。雖然相處時間短暫,陸爸爸總會留意到孩子細微的情緒變化。像早前兒子參加單車比賽,賽前想要逃避,他看出兒子「唔輸得」的性格又作怪了,不斷鼓勵兒子說:「你完成到已經好叻㗎喇!爸爸心目中最叻係你,我都唔得。」 談起孩子,他的聲線就變得溫柔起來,擁抱和鼓勵說話,他從不吝嗇,賽前還特意請假陪兒子練習,比賽當日全程陪伴在側。他笑說,那個只是地區比賽、在球場放幾個「雪糕筒」、踩兩三個圈,可是跟太太看着兒子拼命踩畢全程,險些掉下眼淚。在父母眼中,孩子每一個「達標」時刻,總是如此平凡而感動。 #bwg_container1_0 #bwg_container2_0 .bwg-container-0.bwg-standard-thumbnails { width: 1254px; justify-content: center; justify-content: center; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.00); padding-left: 4px; padding-top: 4px; max-width: 100%; } #bwg_container1_0 #bwg_container2_0 .bwg-container-0.bwg-standard-thumbnails .bwg-item { justify-content: flex-start; max-width: 250px; } #bwg_container1_0 #bwg_container2_0 .bwg-container-0.bwg-standard-thumbnails .bwg-item > a { margin-right: 4px; margin-bottom: 4px; } #bwg_container1_0 #bwg_container2_0 .bwg-container-0.bwg-standard-thumbnails .bwg-item0 { padding: 0px; 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} jQuery('.first-page-0').on('click', function () { spider_page_0(this, 1, -2, 'numeric'); return false; }); jQuery('.prev-page-0').on('click', function () { spider_page_0(this, 1, -1, 'numeric'); return false; }); jQuery('.next-page-0').on('click', function () { spider_page_0(this, 1, 1, 'numeric'); return false; }); jQuery('.last-page-0').on('click', function () { spider_page_0(this, 1, 2, 'numeric'); return false; }); jQuery('.bwg_load_btn_0').on('click', function () { spider_page_0(this, 1, 1, true); return false; }); #bwg_container1_0 #bwg_container2_0 #spider_popup_overlay_0 { background-color: #EEEEEE; opacity: 0.60; } jQuery(document).ready(function () { bwg_main_ready(); }); 孩子的好與不好 也是遺傳 五年前,陸醫生遠赴丹麥工作一年,太太懷着肚內的小女兒,跟仔仔一同越洋探望,四口子在這個以幸福聞名的地方度過4個月,文化差異帶來啓發。陸醫生分享,當時有丹麥人跟他說:「有啲嘢係剩係同個仔做,有啲嘢剩係同個女做⋯⋯唔一定要平等,每個小朋友都有獨特性。」 每每提到兩個孩子,陸醫生即時露出爸爸臉,分享跟孩子的溫馨合照,父愛盡現。 丹麥人亦崇尚中庸之道,不求出類拔萃,包容差異和多元文化。兩個孩子一路成長,性格也是截然不同,7歲的仔仔Myles自我要求高,做什麼也全力以赴;將近4歲的囡囡Lesley恰巧相反,古靈精怪freestyle。陸醫生索性順應他們的性格特質,讓兒子入讀傳統學校,女兒入讀國際學校。兩個小朋友就像太太和他的混合版,當「懶惰基因」浮現,陸醫生就會跟太太說:「你唔好嬲佢,因為係我同你遺傳畀佢。」 子女,始終是一個人加上另一個人的長相和基因。陸醫生當上醫生,也是自然地追隨父親的腳步,「每日起身返工,一定係去幫人,咁嘅職業唔多,係咪好有意義?係好有意義㗎喎!」相似是自然,相處卻需要刻意經營,現在跟父親當年一樣天天早出晚歸,因此更懂得家人相處的可貴,簡單如吃一餐飯,「就算住得近,都要make effort 去約,唔係自然發生,要花心思!」陸醫生說。 萬大事也有陸爸爸!在陸醫生分享的照片中,不時看到他陪伴在子女背後。 Love Papa 護心貼士:叫爸爸做運動 近年高膽固醇及冠心病年輕化,除了老人家,中年人和年輕人也要及早預防。調節飲食以外,陸醫生強調運動的重要,而且一定要持之以恆,最理想是每周至少5天,每次運動超過半小時,強度足以令心跳加快、出汗。可是苦口婆心作用有限,他建議大家陪伴家人一起做,三代同堂不妨一起行山,或到附近公園急步行,期間跟老人家談談往事,藉此製造親子時間。鍛練了一段日子,就可逐漸增加強度,長者則可加長運動時間代替。 #bwg_container1_1 #bwg_container2_1 .bwg-container-1.bwg-standard-thumbnails { width: 1254px; 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opacity: 0.60; } jQuery(document).ready(function () { bwg_main_ready(); }); Ref : 1. 衛生署衛生防護中心 – 愛護心臟 SAHK.CLO.20.05.0312   (06/2020) This article is supported by Sanofi Hong Kong Limited

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